As you heal, things become clear: Attention isn't love, attachment isni connection, and codependency isn't support. You begin to realize that disagreements aren't attacks, lacking boundaries isn't empathy, and no amount of external validation can replace self~love. Trauma bonding isn't healing, ignoring your needs isn't a strength, people~pleasing isn't kindness staying in toxic situations isn't loyalty, numbing your emotions isn't coping, and suppressing your emotions or staying silent doesn't bring peace.https://t.center/theneighbours2021Ⓡ