Value your appearance because the first thing people see when they look at you is your appearance and the way you look. You can't impress someone by your personality ,at first because you are not talking to them or anything. SO, how they will know about your personality. That's why you should always look very clean. Skin care routine, hair care routine, gym, diet.
Additionally, if you don't like something about yourself just go ahead and fix it!!!
I am sorry but start making new friends that are confident and that you can learn from them. I really used to underestimate the power of good friends but when I get good and confident friends in my life ,I realise how much I can change myself, how much I have improved till now. I am not saying ditch your old friends but everyone needs to make new friends. If you have a friend who is confident,can teach you how to be more confident and how to approach new peoples, how to talk to peoples that will elevate you and if you are stuck with friends that are all like OH! Let's stay home oh! Don't do this, like all are introvert then nobody's going to grow. So it is very important to have friends you want to be like. If your friends are literally doing nothing with their life and they don't want to improve let them go. I don't care how hard it is but let them go because when you start improving they are just going to drag you down. The might go to your level but where you will go? Huh? How you will become best version of yourself. So at the end of day you can still be friend with those peoples but you also need friends that elevate you...
From now on, I want you to set daily goals. For example - you have to start saying that from tomorrow I am going to drink one litre of water till a month. No matter how much junk food you eat at least you are going to drink 1litre of water because thats the promise you made to yourself. And if you start doing it actually you will realise that OH! WAIT A MINUTE IF I SAY SOMETHING I ACTUALLY DO IT!! So in this way you are going to trust yourself right?
Imagine, if you have a friend but he is never on time.You meet them and they are all always late. So, next time when you hangout with that friend will you trust him? No because you know that he is always late. So, confidence in them is gone. In the same way, when you promise yourself that from tomorrow I am going to gym, from tomorrow I am going to study or from tomorrow I am going to do this that... And you end up doing none of these things. What happens is you don't trust yourself anymore you words mean nothing to you and that's the issue you have lack of confidence.
Like one day you tell yourself, you know I am going to build that company ,that business, I am going to get that guy/ girl.. Your brain will be like bro, you can't even drink one litre of water per day and you are going to build that business that company HAHA 😂😂
Do you want to walk into any meeting ,any room with all eyes on you?👀 With people actually listening you and not pretending that they are listening what you are saying🧏 because that's the energy you radiate..
So, keep following honey to become more confident because we are starting a series from tomorrow to be more confident with some actual tips...❤️
REMEMBER,I WAS PARTICIPATING IN MUN? and I got 3rd position in my committee.. When last time I visited there I was thinking "EN STUDENTS MAI ETNA CONFIDENCE KESA H??? KAASH MAI BHI AESE HOTI" and now I am one ofthem. So learn from your past mistakes.
Also none of my friend was with me I went there alone,its seems impossible but you need to understand that at the end of day you are yourself so do what you want..❤️☘
