#spoken_english يعد ترك انطباع أول رائع باللغة الإنجليزية أمرا مهما للغاية حيث لا تحصل أبدا على فرصة ثانية لترك انطباع أول.
جمال الانطباعات الأولى هو أننا نعرف بالفعل 3 أشياء ستحدث في المحادثة
✅ a greeting/hello, an introduction,
✅a goodbye/farewell.✴️Greetings 'الترحيب '
كما تعلم معظمكم على الأرجح, الطريقة الأكثر شيوعا لتحية شخص هي :
✅-“Hi, How are you?”
✅-“Fine thanks, and you?”
✅-“Good, thanks for asking.”
هذه العبارة صحيحة بنسبة 100 ٪ ، وربما يستخدمها متعلمو اللغة الإنجليزية بنسبة 100 ٪ من الوقت. لكن ألا يصبح ذلك مملا قليلا بعد فترة? إذا كنت ترغب في تنويع تحياتك قليلا ، وجعلها تبدو أكثر طلاقة ، اترك تلك الكتب المدرسية في الفصل الدراسي ، فهناك طريقة أخرى. كيف تقولها
😁👇✴️-
“Hey buddy! What have you been UP TO?”
✴️-“Oh hey Dude! Not too much, just working and hanging out with my girlfriend.”
✴️-“Sweet.
”هذا يبدو أكثر طبيعية? وبالتالي,
💠what does
UP TO mean?التعبير up هو مرادفDo , نستخدم هذا في اللغة الإنجليزية المنطوقة لأنه أكثر من تعبير غير رسمي.
😅عندما ارحب بشحص بسؤال
“
what have you been up to?”👈 أنا أسألهم ماذا كانوا يفعلون في الآونة الأخيرة.
💠السؤال هو في المضارع التام المستمر لذلك سوف تجيب مع الفعل في المستمر. على سبيل المثال:
🔆“Hey mate, what have you been up to?”
🔰👉“
Ah, the same old, studying,
surfing,
going out, having some drinks with friends.”
🔆“Have you been playing guitar?”
🔰“yeah I’ve been playing a few times a week.”🔆“You been watching the football?”
🔰“
Nah, I don’t really like watching football.”You’ll notice that’s its very common for a native speaker to use the present perfect continuous like this when greeting a buddy. When a person greets me this way the conversation seems to flow a lot more, and it allows us to summarize all the recent news very quickly and concisely.
➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖✅Ice breakers/IntroductionsWhen introducing yourself in another language people are always going to want to know the same information.
People are always going to ask you these same three questions,
-What’s your name? (you’re probably going to have to repeat it a couple of times or make it sound more
English)
-Where are you from? (be prepared to describe you city geographically)
-What are you doing here? (People are always curious)
Another good way to make a good first impression is to get that person talking about themselves or their city. This can be done during the introduction phase as a way of breaking the ice.
So, where are you from?
Is your family from here/there?
What did you think of the soccer last night?
What do you think of this place/the beer/the music here?
Don’t you just hate waiting in line/this music/the noise?
The whole idea of these ice-breakers is to get the other person talking while you simply sit back and listen. Sure, your probably thinking that this is a very impersonal exercise, but the purpose of this is to give yourself more confidence when approaching people in
English. After doing this enough times, you’ll see that it starts to become a very easy and natural process and in no time you’ll be expanding your fluent first impressions to fluent everything.
#Goodbyes بغض النظر عن اللغة ، علينا دائما أن نقول وداعا. لكن لا تريد أن تعرف كيف تعبر عن نفسك وتظهر أنك تقدر حقا شركة هذا الشخص? في بعض الأحيان في لغة ثانية يكون من الصعب بعض الشيء القيام بذلك من القلب.
I really love saying goodbye to people in Portuguese, as bad as that sounds, because there are so many cool, friendly expressions. Some of these words don’t exist or they would never be used in
English for example, “some nao” or the word “saudades.”There are other expressions you can use in
English which may not have the same meaning, but can be used in an endearing way nonetheless.
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